Do you obsess about what others assume about you?

Back a few months ago, my life was not as it usually as it should have been. I was going through so many hardships that were only because of a little bit of change! I found myself in sorrow. My grandmother died, and I felt that there was nobody around me I could relate to. I observed that not many people truly cared about who I was, it seemed that I was living on this earth for no reason. It didn’t seem that my life was real, and I kept myself wondering how I made my life was so great before. I wondered If things were actually going to get better, or if I was just going to be sad forever. My life certainly did get better, and now I am finally happy with how everything is. I believe that everything happens for a reason and the reason that my life became under control again, is what I did for it.

I finally realized that I could make a change for the better. I started reaching out to people, learning what I will and will not deal with, making time to unplug, etc. About one year ago, I started to become shy. I wasn’t able to easily talk to people without worrying that they weren’t going to like me, or they were going to think that I was annoying. I thought that there was nothing I could do to change myself. I thought I would always be this shy girl forever. Get this— the whole reason I became like this is because of somebody not liking me. Something that you will have to learn from your past experiences, is to just let go! There are times where you will think that your world is ending, there will not be anything to make your life better, but there is.

If there was one thing that I’ve learned, It would be that everything happens for a reason. That one person that is always shy, they might be the only person who knows why. What most people don’t realize, is that one little comment you make could ruin or make somebody’s day, just think about that.